Are You an Air Headed Slut? BEAT SLUT SHAMING WITH THIS – AH #20

Slut shaming. That shit thing that people do?

Why? Because they do not understand your sexuality.

When people call you a slut or put you down for your sexuality, it comes down to something really simple. They cannot handle their own sexuality and they cannot handle your growth.

You see, at one point in their life, they settled. They settled on how life should be. It might have been because of how they were raised or how they view the world, but when it comes down to it, they decided that “this is how life should be.”

And it is this decision that is the thing that causes their shaming.

You see, when somebody has decided that their world is so, they also like all the people in their life to be so. The celebrities stay celebrities (unless they get torn down, which would provide them much joy) and the friends remain friends. Most importantly, their sexuality stays the same. The way that they view sexuality and the world around it stays the same. WHY? because it is safe for them.

What is safe for them isn’t really safe for you though.

Because you’re somebody who is powerful. You’re somebody who is sexual, in fact we all are. To hide our sexuality is to hide a good portion of us. Being sexual doesn’t just mean you’re having sex all the time, (which it might) but it means that your sexual ENERGY is increased. Sex is just one manifestation of it. You might find that your sexual energy comes through your work, or through creativity or even the clothes that you wear. Hiding or holding your sexual energy back is to hold your energy for life back; without that energy, you’re emotionally dead.

So, what do we want to do?

What we want to do is first take stock in other people’s feelings. We cannot liberate ourselves through force of will alone, but through an understanding of the world, so it pays to understand how the other person is feeling.

Step 2 is obviously this: do what ever the fuck you were going to do anyway.

You see, when they shame you, it is because you are growing. They want to keep you in your place. Is this a good thing? Surely not. So what we want to do is just keep moving forward with what you wanted to do. Keep developing your sexual energy, keep learning to express yourself. In the end you’ll notice something powerful. When you become famous for it, or when you become more and more powerful and vibrant for it. They will learn to support you.

They will kick you while you grow, and support you while you’re on top.

So, in the end, let’s not take slut shaming seriously. We THINK they are like a barking dog (big and scary at times), that we have to look out for them or put a muzzle on them but in reality, they are like a little chiwawa! A little tiny dog that YIPS!

And do we ever take that little dog seriously? I mean, we might feed it when it is hungry and pet it when it needs love, but when it gets angry it is NOT THAT INTIMIDATING AT ALL!

It’s insane how many times we miss judge things. We might, on one hand, get worried that that person is holding us down, but to quote WIll Smith:

“Stop giving people who do so little to you control so much of your thoughts, mind and emotions”