How to be More Attractive (Sexier) – Ask Harvey #41

Yes yes. This is it.

Your god particle. The thing about you that makes you so much more irresistible to guys!

Now, for a second I am going to talk about sexual attraction because honestly, it is important. I find a lot of people are afraid of their sexuality, so it’s worth talking about to bring to the surface.

You might think, “but all men really want is sex,” and that really isn’t true. They want love, but they are too afraid of it so they settle for sex instead.

Sexual attraction then is so important because it’s part of the TWIN FORCES of a relationship!

If you don’t already know them, the twin forces of successful relationships go as follows!

We have the connection, and we have chemistry! Really simple right?

Without both, you’re stuck in the weird zone. If you’re struggling with connection, most of the time it’s because we suffocate our own chemistry. If you’re struggling with chemistry, most of the time it’s an issue with connection. The inverse laws are at play here people.

So, instead of trying to hide your sexuality, embrace it, because this will drastically enhance your emotional connection. Your sexual centre and your emotional centre are directly linked. They play with each other just like two people can play with each other, so it’s worth embracing!

But here’s the thing.

I want you to take a vow to embrace your sexuality and your own abilities. To realise that your sexuality is linked to your ability to connect with others!

If you think now, that “it’s the guy’s job, why do I have to do it,” well, then, the relationship stops there. Relationships DIE when you have that mentality.