This is a video response to the following question:
“Okay so I dated this guy for 6 months it was going great. The past 3 weeks he did a complete 360 on me. He started drinking more (2 gallons of vodka in 2 days) miss using his meds, calling me names, etc. He then tells me his stressed at work and when he comes home he’s still stressed. A week later he tells me he thought he loved me but now he doesn’t. So I go and get what little stuff I had at his place. 4 days later I get a call saying he’s depressed and wants me back. I point out that he doesn’t love me. He said “I’m feeling like I do something tells me I do. “
I do love him but all this verbal abuse and the drinking. Eeeek I told him I have to think about it. I don’t trust him he broke my trust. Advice ladies . Oh yah he’s seeing a doctor today to get help for his depression”
I decided to respond by a live video at 3:38 am. In this video, we talk about respect, power, and standards and how to affirm them.