Is it possible to be in a relationship and still be lonely?
The truth is, most people get into relationships for the wrong reasons. Some people say that relationships are there for growth, some people believe that relationships are there so you can be happy.
The truth is, NONE OF THESE ARE THE PURPOSE OF A RELATIONSHIP!
The role of a relationship in your life is to SHARE your life.
Because, if you’re happy before a relationship, you’ll be twice as happy IN the relationship because you have somebody to share it with.
This isn’t to say that you can’t be in a relationship, but triggers like loneliness and happiness are to be sought from the self, not from the other. That way, when you connect with somebody, the love and feelings that you share will be brought back twice fold.
But what about people who are lonely and still in relationships? Or if they are unhappy and in a relationship?
This is one of those things that really does hurt a lot of people, so I made this video to give some more insight. I want people to learn that these feelings can change, that you can learn and grow from them all.